Big Cocks and Shamrocks Blog Hop : Condom Conundrum

Condom Conundrum you say??  What is that?  Well the perfect post for my big cocks stop!!!!  Plus on top of the amazing giveaway attached to this wonderful guest post ($10 amazon card, print books and e-book bundles) you have the awesome Basket Full of Naughty, and of course...I'll be giving away a Naughty Box whip, blindfold, handcuffs) plus a $10 amazon card!!!  3 great giveaway and the intro to a hot and sexy erotic writer.  Take it away Marina:  

The Condom Conundrum by Marina Maddix

Offspring sling, tunnel funnel, manhole cover, hog holster, pud pod, dick dike, weenie beanie, cumbrella, rubber raincoat. There are many euphemisms for that safest of safe sex devices, the condom. Sadly, none of them are particularly sexy.

So what’s an erotic romance writer to do? On the one hand, we all want to promote safe sex, but we also want to offer our readers a fantasy world where spontaneous hook-ups with Ryan Gosling-hot billionaire bikers are possible, if not likely. It’s a conundrum that frustrates many writers.

In my erotic romance short Knight Fall*, Kelly and Rick enjoy a spur-of-the-moment assignation. The piece was heavy on sexual fantasy and light on reality, so I chose not to have them use any protection. I’ve yet to receive a complaint, but friends who write in the same genre have. Some have been knocked by one-star reviews for neglecting the condom, while others get angry emails.

As I began the novel-length sequel, Vegas Knights, I knew it would lean much more heavily toward romance than erotica (though there are plenty of hot sex scenes, so consider yourself warned!). Many romance readers, bless their hearts, seem to be heavily invested in condom use in their reads, so I felt it was important to address the birth control issue.

I spent quite some time working out a solution that not only acknowledged my characters’ previous recklessness but also illustrated something about the hero’s character. I am pleased how well it worked with the story, but it leaves me wondering how I’ll handle it for my next book.

What about you, dear reader? Is condom use in erotic fiction important to you? Would you leave a one-star review for a book you otherwise enjoyed because the author left out a mention of birth control? Let us know what you think in the comments!

*Note: While Vegas Knights is a sequel, it's not necessary to read Knight Fall (just 99 cents) first.

Vegas Knights

DESCRIPTION:
After a passionate public encounter with a mysterious and very sexy biker, big girl Kelly Saunders finds herself on the ride of her life. Her 'Knight on shining armor' -- Rick Knight, billionaire heir to a motorcycle legacy -- whisks her away from her soul-sucking corporate job to Las Vegas, where she finds the road to love is treacherous.
 As urgent business matters demand more and more of Rick's attention, Kelly is left to wonder about the future of their relationship. A ruthless betrayal throws her life into turmoil, and a devastating discovery threatens to pull them apart. Is their love just so much Vegas glitter or is it strong enough to survive beyond the dazzling lights of Sin City?

EXCERPT:

They sat entwined under the stars, swaying slightly with the rhythm of their own bodies. Rick's hands moved slowly from her hair down her back. Shivers of anticipation rippled through Kelly. They were going to make love under the stars. It had always been a fantasy of hers but she'd never imagined it would come true. But a lot of things she'd never imagined were happening lately.

Feeling the need to show him she wasn't some precious flower that needed tending and special care, that she was an independent woman, Kelly took control. His eyes never left her body as she moved to stand over him, legs spread, hands on her hips.

"Strip." The single word brought a knowing smirk to Rick's face. Without a word, and still never taking his eyes from her, he eased his off his jacket, throwing it aside. His gaze was positively smoldering as he loosened his tie and started to pull it over his head.

"Leave it." Kelly commanded on impulse. His hands paused, then dropped to the front of his charcoal Armani button-down, his eyes burning into her flesh like a brand. His fingers worked slowly, deliberately, intensifying her need for him. But she wouldn't give him the satisfaction of seeing her impatience. Cocking her hip, she let him tease her with his leisurely pace.

When the shirt was lying atop the leather jacket, he looked up expectantly, awaiting her next instruction. When she nodded toward his pants, triumph flashed across his face. She realized her mistake as he moved to stand. Once on his feet, he would tower over her, emphasizing her vulnerability and his dominance.

"On second thought, scratch that." One of his eyebrows shot up, and a look of exasperation took the place of triumph. She knew the score and she wasn't going to give him an advantage if she could help it. He leaned back on his elbows -- shirtless and irresistible -- and studied her.

She couldn't afford to make a misstep or show any hesitation. This had become less of a game for her and more of a demand for equality in this relationship. He may be rich, but that didn't mean he was in control here. Either he accepted that they were in this together, as equal partners, or he would be taught that lesson. Of course, she suspected that would be a lesson he might enjoy learning.

AUTHOR BIO:

Marina Maddix is a romantic at heart, but hates closing the bedroom door on her readers. Her stories are sweet, with just enough spice to make your mother blush. She lives with her husband and cat near the Pacific Ocean, and loves to hear from her fans. 

Connect with her by email, on Facebook, Twitter, Goodreads or her website www.MarinaMaddix.com.

Marina's part of the Insatiable Reads book tour with 15 other sizzling hot romance authors. Different authors will be featured on various blogs throughout the month of March, culminating in several excellent giveaways. Check out the tour at www.InsatiableReads.com, where you'll find a schedule of Marina's other blog stops.

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Remaining Blog Tour Stops:

3/5 Romance Addict (Getting Romantic in Las Vegas)

3/7 Readers Guide to Epublishing (The Whys & Hows of Reviewing Books)

3/8 Belle’s Book Bag (The Benefits of Pole Dancing)

3/8 I Love Lady Porn (Book Spotlight)

3/10 Under the Covers (Character Interview with Rick Knight)

3/12 The Jeep Diva (Author Interview)

3/13 Caribbean Accent (Author Interview)

3/15 It’s All About Romance (Book Spotlight)

3/16 A Little Fiction for Every Flavour (Book Spotlight)

3/17 Close Encounters of the Night Kind (The Condom Conundrum)

3/17 Musings from an Addicted Reader (Book Spotlight)

3/18 Babbling About Books (Are Alpha Males All That?)

3/19 Coffee Beans & Love Scenes (Book Spotlight)

3/20 Heart Breaking Reviews (Book Spotlight)

3/20 My Fiction Nook (Book Spotlight)

3/21 United by Books (Is It Real or Is It Fantasy?)

3/21 Romance Junkies (Speed Dating Interview)

3/22 Way Too Hot Books (Book Spotlight)

3/22 HEA Romance with a Little Kick (Trash Talking Friends)

3/23 Dr. Pepper Diva (Book Spotlight)

3/24 Hesperia Loves Books (Guest Post)

3/24 Wicked Readings by Tawania (Book Spotlight)

3/25 Books & Tales (Book Spotlight)

3/27 The Book Tart (Guest Post)

3/28 Cocktails & Books (Author Interview)

3/29 Day Dreaming Book Reviews (Author Interview)

3/31 Beach Bum Reads (Author Interview)

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